Personal Branding: Trying isn’t good enough!
Most of us by the time we’re able to read this post have reached points in our lives when we’ve experienced some serious failures. Maybe we asked a high school crush on a date, or said something completely off the wall on a once in a life time interview, either way, we planned things out, but some how everything still went horribly wrong.
When we fail of course it sucks, but strangely for some of us, we feel a sense of relief, because deep within our subconscious we expected for the worst to happen, and it did.
I used to love the word try because it gave me credit for attempting something I didn’t achieve. Years later I found out, in the real world there is no try. In the real world you either did something or you didn’t do it.
When it comes to building our personal brands, sometimes we’ll reach a point where we’ve tried and failed at reaching a crucial step in our progress. What’s really important is that we learn from our failures, and give ourselves the motivation we deserve to reach the goals we’ve set.
There are lessons in our failures that have the power to produce massive success, if only we’d dissect the scenario to find out where it all went wrong.
I don’t want to sound like the cliche 80′s motivational speaker but, “Yes, you can do it!”
Here are two things we should tell ourselves everyday, until we reach our goals.
1. “I am achieving (a specific set goal) right now!”
2. “I understand that I need to (the necessary action) to reach my goal, and I’m doing it right now!”
Remember, there’s never a better time then right now for anything to be done, which kind of gives me an idea for a future post
Change your thought process. Eliminate the spirit of failure. Never again “try” to do the things necessary to produce a better quality of life.
We will always live the lives we feel we deserve. So, reaffirm you walk down a successful path, learn from every experience, and be relentless until your goals are accomplished.
Like the old Nike campaign “Just do it”





Nice post, Sylvester! Good to see somebody infusing a little optimism into the whole personal branding craze.